Dianne Lehmann

The Family of Man



Posted: Tuesday, October 18, 2011

by Dianne Lehmann
Artisan Jewelry from SyZyGy

If you believe the evolutionists (and the creationists for that matter), despite the claims of mathematicians to the contrary (many of them think that there has not been enough time for a single celled organism to evolve through mutation and natural selection into say a worm [let alone us] based on how long the physicists say the universe has existed and the earth come into being), we are all of us most likely related to each other. That's one incredibly huge family. Is it any wonder we go to war from time to time; family dynamics being sometimes contentious and often very complex.

My husband, Bernd, our cat, Winnie, and I make a very small family of three. But we are just a subset of a larger family that includes my sister and her significant other, and a few good friends (both two-legged and four-legged; I do not at this time have any scaled, legless or winged friends within my close circle). And that is a subset of an even larger grouping of people I consider to be friends and, therefore, family.

It's pretty clear that the definition of family is changing. Once it meant merely one male parent, one female parent and their children living together as a unit (okay, sometimes the grandparents were mixed in there as well). These days it is more likely to include single parents, biracial couples, blended families, unrelated individuals living cooperatively and homosexual couples among others. I've always thought of our little threesome as a basic family unit.

For me, a family is the place that you are safe and accepted just as you are. It's where you can be who you are and have the opinions that you do without being judged cruelly for them. It's where you can laugh and be laughed at without giving offense or taking it. It's the comfort you seek at the end of a trying day, or any day for that matter. Family is a refuge from the mundane built upon the mundane and sustained by the mundane. It's the place you think of when you need help. Enfolded within it is where you want to be when you are feeling ill. Family picks you up when you've fallen down and holds you in its heart even when you are far away or have strayed. Family is the unquestioning home that you can always, actually, return to.

I am blessed that I have, in reality, a very large family. I look at it this way. There is my family, my close family, my closer family and my closest family. It doesn't matter that all of its members might not see it the same way that I do. Family is as family does and I do it just fine.
Dianne Lehmann is a jewelry designer who has been in business since January of 2000. Her interest in designing and manufacturing jewelry goes back beyond that to 1994. It took her many years of trying various creative outlets to finally figure out that making jewelry is what she really enjoys. She has also discovered that she loves to write for Wryte Stuff. If you like, you may view her jewelry creations at http://www.syzygyjewelry.com

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Top-level comments on this article: (3 total)
» left by David Tanguay
212 days 20 hours ago.
189 fans.
Interesting article Dianne, thanks for sharing your thoughts of family.
» left by Dianne Lehmann 212 days 20 hours ago.
137 fans.
Hi David.

Thank YOU for reading it!

Hugs,

Dianne
» left by Drunken Mystic
212 days 19 hours ago.
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Lovely words, Dianne. Family is definitely an umbrella which can shelter and care for all.
» left by Dianne Lehmann 211 days 21 hours ago.
137 fans.
Hi DM.

And family can be as big or as small as you like. :)

Thanks for reading!

Hugs,

Dianne
» left by Paul Schroeder 211 days 19 hours ago.
72 fans.
I love and thus include you in a cosmically larger subset family Venn diagram:

http://paulschroeder.wrytestuff.com/swa781298-Family-Of-Man-Evolution-And-The-Human-Genome-Project.htm
» left by Dianne Lehmann 211 days 19 hours ago.
137 fans.
Hi Paul.

I've no doubt we are related!

Thanks for stopping by.

Hugs,

Dianne
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